You sound like a divorce lawyer.
First off I would like to say that my wife and I are not having any issues, however, I was curious if I were to recieve an inheritance, is there a way to shelter that money so that the potential ex could not have access to it in the event of a divorce? It's a pretty tough conversation to bring up with your wife and best friend who you have been with for 12 years any way you look at it.
...If U & your wife are not having any issues..... My call would be to discuss it FIRST with her ! Cuz going behind her back may just start some issues !
.... Just MY opinion !
First off I would like to say that my wife and I are not having any issues,
;;;If this is true then why are you even entertaining the thought or starting this thread? I think your not telling us everything. If I got an inheritance I would love to share it with my wife and family:d.
I concurFirst off I would like to say that my wife and I are not having any issues,
;;;If this is true then why are you even entertaining the thought or starting this thread? I think your not telling us everything
First off I would like to say that my wife and I are not having any issues,
;;;If this is true then why are you even entertaining the thought or starting this thread? I think your not telling us everything
If you really must know, I have had 2 very good friends go through divorce and in both cases the men lost thier shirts. If you were in my shoes I would hope that you would have the forsight to plan for your future like I am.
I concur
Wow, the real winners are coming out of the woodwork here. Take the time to educate yourself before you spout off in a public forum commenting on another members family life. Had you taken some time to find out more about me before typing away you would have found out that I am a proud new dad to my 3 week old son, if anything our son has brought us closer together than we have ever been, heaven forbid something were to go sideways with me and my wife, my only thought would be how to best be able to suport my son. That is the reason I started this post. Take your uneducated opinions elsewhere!!!!
or sounds like I went through this chit for way to long and pay way to much in the end..... Like snotty said, 6k a month is a lesson on why I should have never got married.You sound like a divorce lawyer.
You obviously look at marriage differently than alot of us do. Money is not the end all be all. If your marriage goes sideways, then you both are to blame. You asked the question.Wow, the real winners are coming out of the woodwork here. Take the time to educate yourself before you spout off in a public forum commenting on another members family life. Had you taken some time to find out more about me before typing away you would have found out that I am a proud new dad to my 3 week old son, if anything our son has brought us closer together than we have ever been, heaven forbid something were to go sideways with me and my wife, my only thought would be how to best be able to suport my son. That is the reason I started this post. Take your uneducated opinions elsewhere!!!!
You obviously look at marriage differently than alot of us do. Money is not the end all be all. If your marriage goes sideways, then you both are to blame. You asked the question.
I asked a very specific question and some members were very helpful while others started reading into something that is not there. That is why I got my back up. Had you and others simply focused on the question instead of trying to start s**t I wouldn't have had to waste my time defending myself. Thanks anyway. Oh ya ...have a great weekend
