Snow Bunny
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Hey Bunny... don't be shy! I took three strangers with me to the ride last year and met up with a whole bunch of strangers when I got there. I never knew a soul and it was a total blast. As for the hubby thing- Talk him into it. I think almost all of our hubbies are a little shy and anti-social and had to step waaaaay out of their comfort zone when meeting the new peeps.
I know my husband and I are both not great with crowds. When we go to these things we socialize with the crew, but we spend our own time together away from the crowd so it doesn't get overwhelming. Just think- 90% of the time your guy will have his helmet on and his throttle down-- he won't even have to talk to us then
Tell him that if he wants you to ride lots and enjoy the mountains, then this will go a long way to getting you comfortable. Then you guys will be able to have more enjoyable trips and more of them
As for work-- its called "vacation". Take the Friday off to ride. Drive out or hitch a ride on Thursday night and then go home Sunday. (Monday if you can get the day off and the snow is good!!) It will be totally worth it. I also do shift work in a hospital and I promise you, one thing I've learned is that they will still be there when you get back
Thank you SledMamma for your advice. Hopefully my fiance will come around on the whole idea. As shy as he can be, he loves to ride and I'm sure he would like to come and ride, it's going out of his comfort zone with people he doesn't know he doesn't like. We will see, there is a lot of time left and I think I know of a way to convince him. This will be a great opportunity for me to learn from a woman's perspective and also have some fun.
I do have the opportunity of taking vacation however I have to pick a four weeks of vacation in april for the upcoming year. So this past april I did not know about the ladies ride this march so I was not able to book vacation. How the hell is someone supposed to know what they are going to be doing for a whole year in advance, I hate that. Plus, even if I did book it, I would be in competition with those more "senior" than me and they would get their pick before me if it came down to it. I hate having no or little seniority because I am soo new at my job. Oh well, one day I will get there.