I am a member and have been for about 5 years. I am happy to pay for the year and not have to shell out everytime you head up (convenient) but don't think I would be of much use as far as meetings etc because of scheduling. I will always do my part to pick up extra garbage, stock the wood pile...
Where did this take place. The more info you can put up about where when and WHO the better, maybe these boys will get straightened out. I would look into a complaint with the police that handled the case as well because it doesn't sound like they did their job that well. (Surprise,haha)